Lead by Example, The Most Powerful Christ Like Characteristic

Matthew 7:1-6 NASBS
“Do not judge so that you will not be judged. [2] For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. [3] Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? [4] Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye? [5] You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye. [6] “Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.

Here’s what Jesus meant:

Before sharing valuable advice or wisdom, it is crucial to understand the power of leading by example. It is hypocritical to point out minor flaws in others when you have significant flaws of your own.

Therefore, it is essential to first apply the necessary changes and improvements to your own life before attempting to help others. In doing so, it is important to approach others with kindness, mercy, and compassion, as the measure of these qualities in your heart will be used to measure you.

Once you have refined your own character, then you can share your wisdom, like precious pearls, with those who are receptive. However, be cautious, for if you share your pearls with those who are not ready or willing to listen, they may twist your words and damage both your reputation and your message with their malicious tongues.

For instance, let’s say you want to encourage people to live a healthier lifestyle. Before offering advice on diet and exercise, it is important to lead by example. Start by making positive changes in your own life, such as adopting a balanced diet and incorporating regular physical activity into your routine. By embodying the principles you wish to promote, you not only demonstrate their effectiveness but also gain credibility. People are more likely to be receptive to your message when they see the positive impact it has had on your own well-being.

“Lead by example, for your actions speak louder than words.”